Tuesday, May 3, 2011


What is the worst thing ever happened to your life than to be alone in your own miserable life? Of course, loneliness. Yes, everyone has gone through it and will have to be alone again sometime in the future. As a normal human, yes i had been there. Actually, the loneliness started when you need someone for you whenever you are facing crisis or even some silly problems but nobody is not there. Then, the emotion started to take control the situation and you lost your sense of logical thinking and wise consideration.

Actually there are some type of loneliness that can be experienced by anybody due to certain circumstances.

1. Lonely due to problems

Most problematic people claim that they are alone, and some considerable thinking have to be done due to this situation. Actually, they may think that there is nobody to hear them whenever crisis mountaineering in their daily lives. Whenever people have problems and try to find people as their crying shoulders and mourning ears, theyBold will look for the people who they have trusted. But, when the trusted people seems to be not very helpful, the sadness will go downhill proportionate to the swelling frustration. Hence, the sorrow will turn to loneliness. As the desolation worsen, the sense of wise consideration will drop eventually and people may have taken a poor decision here to face the problem, SUICIDE, SELF-TORTURED, MURDER, and even end up as an unbalanced person. Guys, please. There are always greater hardness faced by other people in the world.

2. Lonely due to relationships

This will be the major loneliness will be ever talked by people who experienced a disappointment towards his or her relationship with other party. There are numerous relationship that can be categorized such as love relationship, family relationship and even friendship. This loneliness generally caused by misunderstanding among others, jealousy and bad experiences that both party had been through in their relationship. Consequently, both will start to be more self-centered and ignore others responses. They will tend to keep the bad feelings for themselves and isolate their mind and thought away from other. Then, the loneliness starts to take place.

they love each other :)

3. Lonely due to situations

This type of loneliness can be considered as the lightest among the list as it occurs only when you are alone in a place that is supposed to be exciting and merry. But sometimes, it can also bring some positive aspect in term of self-reflection as in a lonely place, people tend to look back at themselves, what have they have done in a particular day, what they have forgotten and even can generate flourishing ideas for their writing. Due to this, to be alone sometimes can be a good moment for certain people who can benefit it the best of the time. In contrast, it can also make people to think something silly to do as they got too boring and wanted to do things that can get attention from others. So, do look before you leap.

mourn in merry.

Let's get loud!!

Positively, there are scores of resolution to face loneliness in our lives.

1. Friends

Try locating your friends. See what they are up too. Join them and make your time precious than ever.

2. Utilized yourself

Dressed up! but don't get freak. Out of the mess, you will be more rejoice and fresh to face your life. Still, u can get attracted.

3. Chill up!

Don't get too stressed. Be cool. Breathe the bliss in. Get your mind cleared and plan what your inspired to do. Neglect the loneliness.

4. Keep smiling

Whenever you are alone. Smile!! Be positive. It will hearten you to find possible solutions for your problems.

kerang busuuk!!:P

5. Understand

If you are left by people, try to understand the situation. Don't get too anxious about losing friends. Maybe they have problems too. So, you may have to be independent and positive towards others responses.

6. Positive.

Yes, it is the vital part to be in. Stay positive towards your problems, yourselves, the situation and other people. You will find yourselves in a very magnificent way of handling life when you keep your mind optimistic and affirmative.

In short,

1. Friends
2. Utilized yourself
3. Chill up!
4. Keep smiling
5. Understand
6. Positive

haha. take it maturely guys.

don't get confused meh

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Attention or Intention

Ya, obviously nowadays most of the people, probably teenagers would like to be known by the people.(mostly via internet) It feels great to have thousand pairs of eyes keep staring on us and thousand kind of thoughts that keep judging us in any aspect of life instantly, the way we look,the way we talk and even the way we react.

Before go any deeper on the title I proposed, let see how do people seek for attention globally (I'm not talking about seeking attention from your parents or your crazy girlfriends).

1. Reality shows

Of course there are pros and cons of the reality shows broadcasting globally which carrying its very own preferences, such as singing,modelling,cooking and even ATTENTIONS.Some of the tremendous reality shows do develop potential of people whoever never be well known.Likewise, The Master Chef tv show. Basically, it emphasized in the participant's cooking skills and talents. (it also has special program for kids, Master Chef Junior.

Nevertheless, there is some reality shows that actually, (for my personal view) only have the intention to giving bucks to the producers and the label companies. Plus, the participants joined the shows just to get themselves in public awareness. In fact, the 'after-show' stars, did not gain anything through the participation but just only the ATTENTION throughout the shows.

They do not even build their own self-potential on what they are good at. They tend to make their life with more controversial rumors than to actually aim and benefit the chances they get from the reality shows which can be said as their stepping stones for their future career prospect. I think all of you are wise enough to judge the effectiveness the reality shows (local or global one) towards their own objectives. In short, it is all depends on the contestants to turn the reality shows into a self-potential developing program from only a bucks bases program. (of course it is always to be show-biz, but is it pretty relevant to have ONLY money than to have developed-talent products?)

2. Video postings (YouTube)

I am firmly sure that this massive video hosting network company have been made a lot of money by serving the people with visionary entertainments. Artists like Justin Bieber (do i spell it right) comes from this popular website where he posts some of his talents to be viewed by people then 'walla!' Usher makes him a massive star now. This method is 100% working for people who is actually (in priority order) :

1. wanna be a popular star (yucks!)
2. wanna get famous
3. wanna get massive attention. (urgh..)
4. wanna put themselves in competitive markets (job markets, etc.)
5. wanna show their talents
6. wanna have fun!! (yay!)

Obviously, this method can generate the possibility to get attentions, as people like to watch YouTube.

Yes, this Keenan Cahill have done best of it.

OK move on..

3. Bloggers

Yes, bloggers.You, me and all the bloggers. Actually it depends on one's intention. Some of the bloggers write for attention, some for political importances, some for personal views (it's me.hehe), and even for fun (yay!~again..). As a blogger (if you are active enough), we cannot get that exception in getting public network attention (do we have this phrase?). If you are intended
to be a very famous bloggers, of course you will get the lion's portion of the network attention. Nevertheless, if you are truthfully honestly deeply write for fun and your contents is always to be public's relevant, man you can be a sound writer. Shortly, we write for our intention, and we will get attentions based on public responses. So, not all of the bloggers are the attention-seekers.

As a conclusion, is it our intention to get attention? Put a thought on it. Basically, it is very helpful for us to use the internet as a platform to prove ourselves to the world. But the undeniable thing is the reality. Somehow, we have to face that we are living and have to live in the real world. The network attentions stuff is just the colors we put on to make our life more complicated. Yes, life is complicated because of its very simple problems.Chillex!! :P

Friday, April 15, 2011

a clever boy.

a man with his donkey carrying two sacks of wheat was on his way to the market.after a little while he was tired and they rested under a tree.when he woke up from his nap he could not see the donkey and started searching for the donkey everywhere.on the way he met a boy, he asked the boy, "have you seen my donkey?" the boy asked, "is the donkey's left eye blind, his right foot lame and is he carrying a load of wheat?".the man was happy and said, "yes, exactly!where have you seen it?".the boy answered "I haven't seen it".this made the man very angry and he took the boy to the village chief for punishment.the judge asked, "dear boy, if you had not seen at the donkey, how could you describe it?".the boy answered, "I saw the tracks of a donkey and the right and left tracks were different from this I understood that the donkey that passed there was limping. And the grass on the right side of the road was eaten but the grass on the left was not. From that I understood that his left eye was blind. There were wheat seeds scattered on the ground and I understood that he must have been carrying a load of wheat".the judge understood the boy's cleverness and told the man to forgive the boy.

p/s : this story teaches us that we should not be quick to judge the people.

hello!i am that clever boy! :DD

syairah mohd anuar :)

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Facts vs Opinions

Have you ever come to a debate or an argue with your friends on some facts or maybe some silly things...
Ya..that such of scuffle is called..opposing others' opinions.
Basically facts do come from buds of opinions.Action of thinking can brought to many claims that can declaim any of structured facts.
We can't claim on anything even making any statements upon any facts without our own supporting points and proves...
Generally,others' opinions can become facts if the claims that have been made are supported with strong proved and facts.
In a nutshell we can make our own facts by supporting our opinions with previous and currently others' proven statement.
For an example.
how do you considering the history as a fact although you never studied about it?
and why do the bedtime stories did not be considered as a fact although it has a same concept of comprehension with histories as both them can be classified as )stories?
History by it own hands can be considered as a fact as long as no other opinions with a strong supporting details declaim it as a history(fact).
In short, facts is opinions which are supported by well-proved claims.. i building a fact??
that's all..

p/s:sorry for the bad english.enjoy:)

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

aku da jdi 'universiter'...

maaf la suda lama ta update
aku skg da 18 tahun..msok u beb!!plig mude kt campus aku...hahha is a really new thing for me..independent studies.ya of course la dlu pena dok asrama de timetable.dok tgb mmg indie gak but dis is tougher.fuuhh!!da la rmy foreigners cmpus aku da dok oversea je.cet!!
pape hal life goes on.aku cm ta sangke mase cpt berlalu.dlu aku igt lg berangan-angan nk msuk uni..jdik buda here i am..
dlm post ni gak i would like to thank all my teachers, friends and beloved parent for your endless support.without you all..i never reached this for now..
roger out

p/s:thanks to my lovely girlfriend,i finally make mind to update my blog.i love you dear.xoxoxox